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I didn't know why this song felt so similar to what I was experiencing. I knew that I hated my body and that "there was something wrong with me". I was working at a subway, closing by myself as usual and I locked the door right at 10pm. I went in the back, listened to this very song on loop and cried as I fully accepted of who I was. Its been five years since then, about 7 months on Estrogen. I love being me, and I love being trans. I love the progress I have made and most importantly, I love myself. Thank you Cavetown and thank you jsyctaom. And a reminder; yes it sucks, but it is much more beautiful to be who you are. I know it gets better. I wish you all the best of luck, peace and love.

One of my favorites ❤

i am a cis guy, but the first man that i genuinely loved (in a long time) was a trans guy, and he told me to listen to cavetown, i always listened to some songs but i never got deep diving to listen his songs till now. it is so fucking impressive the way that robbie describes dysphoria, it sounds very simillar to the way that the man i loved described to me as well. its so fucking sad that i cant do anything to make him feel better, no matter how much i say that he is amazing, his voice sound so cool, or the way that he looks like is exactly like a cis man would, he will still feel this damn dysphoria. thank you so much for this song, although i cant relate, at least i can understand how trans people feel about dysphoria. if youre a trans person reading this, youre valid, what you feel is valid, please dont give up on yourself

Listening to this song because I'm.... Man-bleeding... Yeah. It sucks balls.

i don't even think i'm trans, but i am a lesbian with homophobic parents and this song just... feels right. three more years and i'm finally free. much love to all of y'all <3

I’m non-binary and closeted cuz I don’t think my parents would ever support me

I'm non-binary in a non supportive family (minus my big sister), this song hits home more than i wish it did-

HI GUYS!!! i just wanted to come on here and say i will be attending the Cavetown X Mother Mother show in Washington DC this summer! if anyone else is going and would like to say hi comment down below :)

not a trans guy but a trans girl, but this song hits all the same dysphoria genuinely makes me want to rip my face off im okay though ❤️

Just started T last week, i know one cares but its a strange step but has made me feel more dysphoric. I'm just waiting to finally change and comparing myself to cis men :/

I'm a cis girl who identified as trans male for a bit. This song hits close to home.

this song just makes me cry

its weirdly comforting coming back to this song every few years so see how much has really changed

I’m a cis bi woman but I can relate to this song because 1. I’m extremely gnc (I even have a different name from what I was assigned at birth and different pronouns) and I’m forced to dress like a woman would 2. I feel very insecure about my body. I cant imagine how worse it is for trans people who feel as if they’re in the wrong body and may never be in the right one.

update im enby now

I think its so special cavetown finally felt like he could come out

my brain every night: are you trans are you genderfluid are you ace are anything are you nonbinary whats your gender who are what are ooooohhhh what time is it wait i wanna use a toaster oven as a hand grenade edit: thats actualy my brain tho fr

WHY IS THE FIRST TIME I'VE HEARD THIS SONG WTF

It seems ive taken the lyrics in a different way than everyone else. I could be wrong about the meaning though. Ive interpreted about s.h. im probably wrong though

i am starting testosterone in just a few months and i am so excited.

I really wanna transition and come out to my parents but I can't and it hurts. My parents are always talking about me being trans and how they wouldn't love me if I was.... I just wanna know I'm not alone :(

When I see someone or read a comment of something dealing with gender dysphoria, I feel very relaxed. I am not alone💔

rip nex benedict, i directly thought about this song when i heard that, stay strong fellas

Ik this is a couple years old but if u see this hi I’m Annabelle and I’m 12 just late 2023 I found out that I was non-binary I did heaps of research and other stuff such as realising that when ever someone referred to me as a female I felt ashamed and on the 17th of January I got a really short haircut and I have had people misgender me as male I always felt ashamed and didn’t mind I want to come out to my mum as non-binary and use they\them\their pronouns and change my name to ash as it’s gender neutral. I’ve came out to one friend they now support me and always ask when will I come out to my family and other friends 💙😁🖤 if anyone has any ideas of how to please reply I’ll message anyone back I have a channel

I used to cry to this song, not understanding why. I'm 21 now and 5 yrs on T lmao. It gets better

i’m reading all the comments and crying. everything is too much sometimes but it’s going to be okay. just please believe that. we have to believe that ❤️

Imo this is Cavetown's best song

I'm genderfluid but more than that I'm disabled. it's hell being physically incapable of doing the things you need to be happy. im tired of depending on others for everything

I hate how relatable this song is I am crying ...

Coming back to this every year with an update. January 2024- Starting my social transition. I just came out to my mom and am going to go to gender therapy.

this song hits hard. ive lost contact with half my family cuz they dont accept who i am, ive had my dad talk shit abt me behind my back because he doesnt support, and honestly this year has been shit. family members that DO support me have been ignoring me for weeks so i just stopped talking to them and one of them was my cousin which i was very close with. it baffles me how okay people are to not have any contact with you

2020-2022 me is screaming rn

Even tho im not a trans, nonbinary or aro/ace, just a lil' lesbian, i listen to this cuz i feel very lost, i had so many plans for my future and by mistakes i make it falls apart, i know that life is usually goes the way we never expect it to, but it's still unfair and im just panicking every day for about 2-3 months, i know that i will get through it, but i really wish i wasnt, i just want to be myself in a place i want to live in. I feel disappointed, i feel like i dont belong in my home-country for being myself, it makes me want to cry every day, and i just found this song, even tho i've been listening Cavetown for a long time, i never heard it, and it brings me such a comforting feeling, between a venting song and a lullaby, like im not alone in the mess i got myself into. So i decided to vent here too, it's a bit hard for me to tell about how big of a disappointment im becoming,,

I used to listen to this song when I was 12 and very suicidal, I listened to it again 3 years later and It was almost like it triggered something cuz I started bawling my eyes out

let's just hope that I'm alive when I'll finally be able to transition

Im a trans male whos pansexual. Yes i love girly clothes and yes i love boy clothes. My parents doesnt know that im pansexual and trans. Im scared to tell them.

i come here everytime it gets bad... it makes me cry :(

man idk what i am honestly. i think im a guy. but i used to wanna be a girl alot when i was younger. im leanin towards bein a guy tho but sometimes i just wish i was born a girl. huh

escuchaba esto a moco tendido con 13... este año cumplo 18 y llevo más de un año en hormonas quisiera volver un par de años y abrazarme a mi mismo

I’m 17 now, going on 18 this year. I still vividly remember listening to this song at the beginning of what would become my transition. I felt that this song expressed all of my frustrations and inner strife with who I was. It’s been a few years since I’ve been out, and I can say that I’m beginning to know what comfort is. I’m beginning the medical aspect of my transition later this year, and I’m so incredibly glad that I made this far. For any trans people who read this, especially FTM/transmasc people younger than myself, I can assure you that it will get so much better than what you may be having to endure now. The end is not as close as it can feel sometimes. You belong everywhere you go; you simply need to find your way to the people who will understand you and support your journey. It gets so much better, given the time. I’m awfully young, and I know I got an awfully long while left. I deserve to be happy, and deserve to get old, and you do too. This world needs more trans joy. Be an unapologetic beacon of it 🫂💛

AAAAAAA I LOVE ROBBIES SONGS AND I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH

Hey, can I get a link to the original release of this song? I tried to find it but I couldn't and I want to support the original creator.

i wish this was on spotify, i cant relate, but my heart goes out to all that dont and especially ones that do 💗

The first time I heard this song I felt like my heart got ripped out. YES dysphoria is real, YES dysphoria is painful, YES dysphoria can be torturous for some including me BUT I know that me and the other lovely trans people watching will prevail! We WILL be free! Just wait and stay strong and safe! :) <3🏳️‍⚧️

It’s been over a year i thought this was this end… me three years later with dysphoria worse then ever.

This comment section is the section of the unusual. The best type of unusual. If only commen people would see that we are beautiful in every freakish lovely way possible. We're different. We're gorgeous in any form we are, so transphobic scrollers, watch us be proud of who we are every second in time before we tell you to get outta here✌

Aww I remember listening to this years ago before I came out to anyone. Now im almost 18 and almost fully transitioned. Stick around.

"Promosm" 💘

I don't have any pride about being a trans man, if I had it my way, I would never let any of my friends know I was a trans man, I'd just let them keep thinking I was cis, but it's any day now until they find out. It doesn't matter if they end up being supportive (though I don't think they will be), even if they are, I won't ever be a real man in their eyes, not like the rest of the boys, I'll just be "identifying" as a man, a sheep in wolf's clothing. If being trans really were a choice, I would choose not to be, but just the thought of being a girl makes me feel sick, like I need to throw up, like I can't breath, I'd crack my own ribs if it meant having a flat chest, even just for one day. To swim with my friends during the summer, to invite them to my house without them seeing any old photos of me.

Always play to your strengths unless an archives challenge tells you otherwise. 😅